Going For a Run With God

"I can do everything through Him who gives me strength." - Phil. 4:13

Living a life that has a relationship with Jesus Christ is often referred to as a walk. This past weekend, I went for a run with Him.

Years ago, my wife Angie and I had participated in all kinds of endurance events. There were sprint triathlons, marathons, ultra-marathons and even a few Ironman triathlons. I began doing these events for a number of reasons. But those reasons were all about me. What was I capable of? I could do whatever I set my mind to. The problem with that was at a number of events, when I decided that I had gone far enough, I would quit. I'd get off my bike, or I would just start walking. Sometimes I would just wait by the side of the road until one of the support vehicles came by to take me to the finish line. After a few of these D.N.F.s (Did Not Finish), it became easier and easier to quit. After all, I was just running for me. The only person I was letting down was myself. And at times, I didn't like myself all that much. Afterall, I was the one that decided not to train the right way, even though I knew there was going to be a race coming up. You've probably heard the expression, "failing to prepare, is preparing to fail." That was me. Sometimes I think I almost did it on purpose because I felt like such a loser that I would set myself up, knowing that I wasn't going to be able to finish.

Finally, after a few of these negative racing experiences, I decided to give it up completely. Not only wasn't I going to race anymore, but I wasn't even going to exercise. We owned a gym. I was a personal trainer. Our lives had revolved around health and fitness for years. But I threw in the towel. When I decided that I wasn't going to work out, I ate everything in sight. Over the next year I had put on almost 50 pounds. The people at the pizza place knew me so well that when I would call and say, "Hi. It's Chuck," they would basically just hang up the phone and half an hour later would be knocking on my door. Soon after this, I began my relationship with Christ, even though I sure wasn't treating my body like a temple.

One of the strange things about all of this was that my wife continued to race. Because she is legally-blind, it was my responsibility to drive her to all of the events. Usually, I would hang out with her at the start line and then go sleep in my car until I thought she would be getting close to finishing. I'd meet her at the finish line, get back in the car and drive home. I can't tell you how many times I would be standing around with her when somebody would come up to us, look me straight in the eye and say, "Wow. You sure put on a lot of weight." Now really. On what planet do you think you are on where this is ever an appropriate thing to say to somebody? What was I supposed to say to that? "Um...yeah. I guess I did."

The thing is, the races weren't the only times people would say that to me. There were very few days that went by when I didn't hear it from somebody. Finally when I had reached maximum density, I decided I would try working out again. We had closed our gym, so I decided to try some of the other ones around town. I kid you not when I tell you that there were times I would be running on a treadmill, with my headphones on, only to have somebody come stand in front of me and just look at me until I took my headphones off to say hello. And what would they say? "Wow. You look like you put on a lot of weight." Ugh.

That was it. I found a personal training studio, and for Christmas my wife got me some sessions with a trainer. It was great. I would work out, and nobody else was around. After a few sessions, and starting to see some results, I got the courage up to go to a small gym that had just opened. I was there everyday. My wife was a huge support, and always made sure that we ate healthy and I had time to get my workout in.

Over the course of the past two years, I have gotten most of the weight off, and even put on some extra muscle that I didn't have before. I don't have to listen to people call me fat anymore, although there are still people that remember me from way back when I weighed about 150lbs. that say I got bigger, but that is only on a very rare occassion. During the summer my wife was given permission to start racing again after dealing with congestive heart failure for the past year. I decided that I would try to race again too. No more sitting in the car on race-day.

This past Sunday was the beginning of our road back to the Ironman. It was a half-marathon (13.1 miles) here in Fort Lauderdale. Before the race, I had listened to a clip on my phone from the movie "Facing the Giants." It was the scene known as the Death Crawl. If you have seen the movie you know exactly what I am talking about. If not, I highly recommend it. It basically says don't quit. Give it all you've got. Give God all that you have and do your best. Just don't quit. When we were at the starting line, my wife gave me a kiss and said, "Don't quit. You'll be angry with yourself if you do."

Around the 11 mile mark, I wanted to walk it in. I knew I would finish the race, but I wanted to give up on my goal of going under 2 hours. I kept thinking about what Angie had said. What the scene in the movie was saying. If it was just me running, I would have quit. After all, it hurt. I'm not a thin little guy that floats with every step. I lumber and pound my way through it. But this time it was different. This was the first time that I had raced with God right there alongside me. Even if I didn't have the strength to want to continue, He had it for me. It wasn't just about me running this time. It was also about showing myself, and even some of the people that have seen the impact He has made in my life, that with Him we can do anything.

I crossed the finish line with some time to spare. When it was over, it was hard not to just drop down and start crying. It wasn't about me. It was just another example of God's power and strength that brought me back, not just to the finish line, but more importantly, to the starting line.

Do You Have What it Takes to Lead?

“And David shepherded them with integrity of heart; with skillful hands he led them.”Psalm 78:72 NIV

How many more leaders have to fall? How many more times will we read of a man or woman with great potential who seems to make it to the top of their profession only to find out they have a fatal flaw? Whether it is insider trading on Wall Street, lying by the local mechanic to keep customers, or a moral failure in a pastor, someone always looses.

This verse describes the two tracks of the train of godly leadership, character and skill. King David led Israel with both. Too many times we have leaders who rise to the top because of their great competency, only to find out they lacked character.

David is said to have led with “integrity of heart.” The word “integrity” comes from the same root word as the math term integer. An integer is a whole number; “integrity of heart” speaks to an undivided heart for God, wholehearted. David had a passion for God that was unequaled in his day; in fact, the Bible describes him as a “man after God’s own heart.” David struggled for and failed but he maintained his integrity because he repented and sought God’s favor. (Read Psalms 32 and 51)

King David demonstrated his skill on the battlefield, building a kingdom and even assuring his successor. Which is more important skill or character? The Bible always leans on character first. Character is foundational to the godly leader. We all know that skills can be learned, but it is very difficult to teach character. Having said that, I believe the kind of leadership that makes a difference will comprise skill and character.

QUESTION: List five characteristics of Jesus Christ that made people want to follow Him? Who are some model leaders you know in your church? What makes them stand out as leaders? List five skills you need to develop to become a better leader? What character issues may need strengthening?

Todays Daily Devotion from Sheridan House Family Ministries For more go to: http://www.sheridanhouse.org/Resources/Devotions/daily_devotions.aspx

Knowing Where to Find God

“In the early morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house,and went away to a secluded place, and was praying there.” Mark 1:35, NAS

No matter how busy Jesus got, He would always retreat to a quiet place and pray. Prayer is a huge stress reliever: “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7) Someone said that stress is the gap between the demands placed on us and the strength we have to meet those demands. Our generation is described in these three words: hurry, worry, and bury. It is not a sin to be stressed, but it is wrong not to seek the Lord and find the decompression chamber of the quiet time. Tell Him what presses your life and weighs on your mind. After all, Jesus said, “I do nothing on my own initiative, but I speak these things as the Father taught Me.” (John 8:28) I was totally stressed out as a young college student, maintaining a full course load, pastoring a church, and maintaining an active social life. My immune system was breaking down with about eight infections a year. Then Isaiah 40:31 became so precious: “Yet those who wait for the Lord will gain new strength.” The word “gain” or “renew” is a Hebrew word that literally means to exchange strength, my puniness intertwined with His power. Wonderfully, the Christian life is not only the changed but the exchanged life. I give God my so-called strength (which is really my weakness) and receive His power. QUESTION: Are you willing to take time in prayer today to “wait on the Lord?” Yes? No? How much time? Like Jesus, maybe you need to go “off to a solitary place.” Where do you sense the greatest weakness right now?

Todays Daily Devotion from Sheridan House Family Ministries
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In It To Finish - Sharing the Gospel of God's Grace

Acts 20:24 "However, I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me - the task of testifying to the gospel of God's grace."

It is something that has been gnawing at me since the day I began my walk with Christ. I am in a safe environment around my wife, my in-laws, the people we see at Church and at the kid's school. There were a lot of people praying for me to accept Jesus as my savior. After five years of marriage it finally happened, and it was an answer to so many prayers. At the same time I knew that my parents would have a hard time accepting the path that I have chosen for my life. Not the wife I chose, or the jobs I've tried (and failed at). But being raised in a Jewish family, it would be hard for them to accept my conversion.

As we have dealt with a number of struggles over the past few years, they have often asked us how we are able to respond the way that we do. How can we stay calm in the face of such tremendous adversity? Over and over we tell them that everything happens the way it is supposed to. That there is a purpose behind all of it, and that God is in control. As long as we truly believe that, what is the sense in getting frustrated when we get sick, or when the money gets tight? Even though we say it this way, I've never been able to decide if they really understand that it is our relationship with Christ that gives us that security, or if they just think we are saying "God" in a general sense.

They know that we are raising our children as Christians. That they love the Lord. That we all pray for them. Particularly my oldest son, Austin. He often gets emotional thinking about the fact that his Mima and Papa won't be with him forever in heaven because they don't believe in Christ. Being eight, he has no problem telling them that. So we pray for them at home. Whenever the boys spend the night with them they bring up their bibles and ask them to read the daily devotions, just like we do at home.

The verse above tells me that I need to share my testimony, which I love doing with people. But when it comes to my parents, my voice goes away. These are two of the most important people in my life, yet I'm afraid to even approach the topic with them.

So I continue to pray for them. I continue to pray that one day He will give me the strength to sit down and talk to them about it. I just hope that day comes before it is too late. Before the race is over for any of us.

Not only do I want to finish the race, but I want to finish it well.

For all unsaved family members we continue to pray in His name. Amen.